“It takes a great deal of courage to stand up to your enemies, but a great deal more to stand up to your friends.”
At the end of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, as Professor Dumbledore is awarding “last minute” points to various individuals (Harry included) for their extraordinary performance, he singles out Neville Longbottom, who, it had seemed, played a very small role in the story. As the three heroes were heading off on their climactic adventure, little Neville tried to stop them in the Gryffindor common room. Unfortunately, the too-smart-for-her-own-good Hermione petrified him with a spell and they went off anyway.

However, Neville’s little deed was noticed by the headmaster, and it was the points he earned that placed their house in first place for the House Cup that year. It may not have been what Neville wanted, but his courage was what, ultimately, lifted all his peers up.
That sort of courage is what the readings this weekend are about. Jeremiah, the young prophet, receives his calling and mission from God. The Lord recognizes that this mission will be hard and He tells Jeremiah so. However, He also tells him that it is God’s work that he will be doing, and he will be strengthened to be able to endure it. “They will fight against you but not prevail over you, for I am with you to deliver you, says the LORD.” And it is that awareness of God’s presence that allows Jeremiah to continue and tell his fellow Israelites some rather harsh news.
Saint Paul, in writing to the Corinthians, knows too that even those things that might earn him honor and popularity are nothing if he does not possess love. This love is not just “nice feelings” toward others, but it is that agape, that charity, which is the essence of who God is. It, therefore, must at times speak difficult things to others when love for them demands it. Ultimately, this love “never fails,” because this love is God.
Even Jesus knew what it was like to stand up to his friends and fellow townsfolk. At Nazareth, even as he announces the fulfillment of the Good News the prophets had announced, he had to also warn them that simply being associated with him was not cause for security. Rather, they were not exempt from the chastisements that the prophets had leveled on God’s behalf toward His people. It’s hard to listen to difficult news, even when it’s a friend who is delivering it.
We, too, can find ourselves in the place of Jeremiah, Paul and Jesus. We live in the midst of many friends and family whose choice might not be in keeping with what we know God would ask of them. The challenge for us is to be the voice that helps them to hear what God is speaking to them and then to have the courage to speak up.
So much of what we do can be motivated by how we think our friends will react to us – “Will they still think I’m cool?” “Will they agree with me?” “Will they still be my friends?” With this in mind, often we will not say things that love might require us to say; we might not speak up for what we know is right or true; we might allow the just deed to go undone for the sake of fitting in. Even more, it is very hard to tell our friends when we think they are acting wrongly, when they are doing something that is harming themselves or others, when our beliefs are being compromised by their actions around us.
Sometimes, in the name of “tolerance” we will be quiet; however, if we are truly honest with ourselves, it is not tolerance but fear that keeps our mouths shut.
In times like these, God’s Word should encourage us – as it did Jeremiah and Paul: “Be not crushed on their account, as though I would leave you crushed before them.” God tells us this in order to strengthen us, but also that we can be a sign and help to others. It is the common good that is the value here, and God’s truth always serves that good.
This is the Truth that Jesus is – a truth that comes to set us (and others) free. It may seem like a small thing to speak up to our friends, but that truth often takes much more courage to speak. We are blessed to hear that Truth, as were the people of Nazareth. May we not be closed to it as they were, so that Jesus simply walks away.